yerrrrrr! i’m kay she/they. as a silly lover girl, biggest sister, community care worker and deeply imperfect human bean, i work hard (and often fail) to show up with deep care for myself, my loves, my work, my home, my communities at the same time.
nothing is perfect tho, certainly not me.
some days the needs of my home brush against my body’s capacity. i’ve initiated more friend, family, workplace break ups in the last year than i can count. and i would be lying to you (i don’t do that) if i suggested that i address every challenge with grace and a level head.
i believe pulling the veil back on these truths is the perfect (heh) starting place for us to get real about the care we need, when we require something different, what stands in our way, and our own agency to show up as devoted stewards of our own care.
here, we nurture a foundation of unhinged honesty, rigorous curiosity, deep regard, and the humor you’d only find in the wee hours of an unexpected sleepover w yo sibling or favorite friend group.
more than anything, we do not perform perfection for ourselves or one another. no — the diary can hold our messy truths.
come get you some.
